I want to discuss something that is gradually becoming part of our culture and, somehow, we are normalising it. Have you noticed that when a woman is single, she often receives far less attention from men than when she is married? Once a woman gets married, even when it is obvious that she is pregnant,Continue reading “Beware of false praises.”
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In Time to Come
When I reflect on how we are moving as a people, accepting new ideas, cultures, and modernization without critical evaluation, I become deeply concerned. In many advanced nations, care homes are very common. They were originally created for elderly people or those facing mental health challenges. However, over time, what was meant to support familiesContinue reading “In Time to Come”
Who Will Cry When You Die?
The fall of a yellow leaf is a warning to the green ones. Truth is always in plain sight, yet many people remain unaware of it. Over time, we have seen and heard of people we know passing on to the next life. Somehow, the cause of their death often gives people a strange senseContinue reading “Who Will Cry When You Die?”
THE FAMILY VALUES WE MUST NOT LOSE
There is no person more dangerous than someone who expects to live a life they were unable to build for themselves. Such people expect others to meet standards they themselves could not meet. Once you are in the same space with them, you begin to notice a mindset driven by grandiosity and distorted perceptions, oftenContinue reading “THE FAMILY VALUES WE MUST NOT LOSE”
Freedom, Values, and Self-Accountability
Which is more important: being free to do whatever you want, or being guided to choose your needs over your wants? Any wise person would choose to live intentionally and be guided by principles and values. Today, conversations about relationships have become dominant across many social media platforms. Unfortunately, much of the discussion is centeredContinue reading “Freedom, Values, and Self-Accountability”
Chi’s Crossroads
The sun beat down on the earth with scorching intensity, so much so that even the fans blew hot air. People gathered on their balconies in search of fresh air, hoping for some relief as the water they had poured on their bodies slowly evaporated. Everyone felt the heat—except Chika. Chika sat in her bedroom,Continue reading “Chi’s Crossroads”
Mmadu ka ana-aya 🌸💖
I often wonder how things like land, houses, water, electricity, and food became commercialised 🌸. In a world where everyone is a citizen, some people enjoy far more than others 💖. You might say some people work harder than others; however, evidence has shown that it’s not simply about hard work alone 🌼. The narrativeContinue reading “Mmadu ka ana-aya 🌸💖”
🌿 The Tree Message: Grow Deep, Bloom Strong 🌸❤️
People often admire the outward success and quality of life others display, yet pay little or no attention to the underground work done silently to achieve it. 🌸❤️ The truth remains: whether success is genuine or not, there is always a price to pay. The real question is—how rooted is your effort toward the goalContinue reading “🌿 The Tree Message: Grow Deep, Bloom Strong 🌸❤️”
🌸❤️ Black Tax or Family Love? A Call for Balance and Reflection ❤️🌸
There is a growing trend of discussion around a concept called Black Tax. I may not know who coined the term, but since it has gained wide acceptance without much critical evaluation, I will maintain the nomenclature so we can clearly engage in this conversation. 🌸❤️ Black Tax is a term used to describe theContinue reading “🌸❤️ Black Tax or Family Love? A Call for Balance and Reflection ❤️🌸”
Detachment Guilt: A Factor Contributing to Relationship Breakdown 🌸💖
There has always been a desire to offer advice to others based on personal relationship experiences. Recently, however, there has been a noticeable rise in relationship breakdowns, role confusion, and leadership struggles among couples. This raises an important question: Who are you modelling your relationship after, and what was your ideal vision of marriage beforeContinue reading “Detachment Guilt: A Factor Contributing to Relationship Breakdown 🌸💖”
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