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Beware of false praises.

I want to discuss something that is gradually becoming part of our culture and, somehow, we are normalising it. Have you noticed that when a woman is single, she often receives far less attention from men than when she is married? Once a woman gets married, even when it is obvious that she is pregnant,Continue reading “Beware of false praises.”

Balancing the Old Culture and the New Culture

It is important to highlight that the values and roles traditionally performed by men in the old culture, such as protection, provision, and decision-making are still very relevant. What has changed, however, is that men are no longer the sole providers, protectors, or decision-makers in many homes today. Many men are struggling to accept thisContinue reading “Balancing the Old Culture and the New Culture”

THE FAMILY VALUES WE MUST NOT LOSE

There is no person more dangerous than someone who expects to live a life they were unable to build for themselves. Such people expect others to meet standards they themselves could not meet. Once you are in the same space with them, you begin to notice a mindset driven by grandiosity and distorted perceptions, oftenContinue reading “THE FAMILY VALUES WE MUST NOT LOSE”

❤️ Reflections on Love, Commitment, and Guarding Our Relationships

🕊️ The bird that keeps looking back at its old nest while flying will eventually clash into a tree. In much the same way, some people move into new relationships physically while their hearts and minds remain tied to their previous partners. When the past is not properly released, it becomes difficult to fully embraceContinue reading “❤️ Reflections on Love, Commitment, and Guarding Our Relationships”

🔥 Lust, Betrayal, and Death — A True Story with a Hard Lesson for Our Time.

❤️ Okuko si ya nwetakwa mkpuru akwu ya na-acho n’isi akwu, o sozikwa ogbe akwu ya rukpoo ya anya.(The fowl said that provided she is able to get the palm nut from the head, she doesn’t mind losing her eyes in the process.) ❤️ Our people also have a saying that when a sacrilege isContinue reading “🔥 Lust, Betrayal, and Death — A True Story with a Hard Lesson for Our Time.”

🌸 Family;The Heartbeat of Society🌸

Family is the smallest unit of society, yet it is the strongest foundation that holds nations together. It’s one of the key agents of socialization—where values, morals, and ethics are first taught and learned. 🌼 Within a true family, there is unity. It’s a place where you learn to express yourself, agree or disagree respectfully,Continue reading “🌸 Family;The Heartbeat of Society🌸”

The Changing Face of Marriage: A Call Back to Our Values

In the olden days — mgbe enu bu ana osa, mgbe ezi di n’ukwu ukwa — marriage was a thing of joy.It united villages, ended wars, and reconciled land disputes — all because the institution of marriage was respected and held in high regard. Proper inquiries were made on both sides, with the welfare ofContinue reading “The Changing Face of Marriage: A Call Back to Our Values”