Beware of false praises.
I want to discuss something that is gradually becoming part of our culture and, somehow, we are normalising it. Have you noticed that when a woman is single, she often receives far less attention from men than when she is married? Once a woman gets married, even when it is obvious that she is pregnant,…
Balancing the Old Culture and the New Culture
It is important to highlight that the values and roles traditionally performed by men in the old culture, such as protection, provision, and decision-making are still very relevant. What has changed, however, is that men are no longer the sole providers, protectors, or decision-makers in many homes today. Many men are struggling to accept this…
You Are a Man Regardless of Your Financial Status
There is an obvious struggle today when it comes to the position of men in families and relationships. There has been a rise in domestic violence as some men attempt to exert authority in unhealthy ways within their homes and relationships. Today, we are going to examine what has led to increasing frustration among men…
In Time to Come
When I reflect on how we are moving as a people, accepting new ideas, cultures, and modernization without critical evaluation, I become deeply concerned. In many advanced nations, care homes are very common. They were originally created for elderly people or those facing mental health challenges. However, over time, what was meant to support families…
Who Will Cry When You Die?
The fall of a yellow leaf is a warning to the green ones. Truth is always in plain sight, yet many people remain unaware of it. Over time, we have seen and heard of people we know passing on to the next life. Somehow, the cause of their death often gives people a strange sense…
THE FAMILY VALUES WE MUST NOT LOSE
There is no person more dangerous than someone who expects to live a life they were unable to build for themselves. Such people expect others to meet standards they themselves could not meet. Once you are in the same space with them, you begin to notice a mindset driven by grandiosity and distorted perceptions, often…
Freedom, Values, and Self-Accountability
Which is more important: being free to do whatever you want, or being guided to choose your needs over your wants? Any wise person would choose to live intentionally and be guided by principles and values. Today, conversations about relationships have become dominant across many social media platforms. Unfortunately, much of the discussion is centered…
🌍 Honouring Nurses: The Unsung Heroes of Humanity
In the spirit of Nurses Week, I want to sincerely appreciate nurses all around the world for their priceless contributions to global health and humanity. Nurses are the heartbeat of medicine and healthcare. They are the lifeline of every medical profession. Whenever I reflect on the origin and essence of nursing, I cannot help but…
Healing Beyond the Silence
Fred was raised by his mother after his father died of tuberculosis when he was just four months old. Despite this early loss, he grew up in a warm and loving home with his stepfather and siblings. Although his childhood was happy, Fred always felt the absence of a biological father. He often wondered what…
Obodo emebi go, our land is in agony.
There is nothing as dangerous as a powerful slave. Wearing a crown does not change a person’s mind, it only exposes it. Though the colonial masters have physically left the African continent, they remain with us psychologically and emotionally. This is evident in how we relate to one another. Africans continue to enslave themselves by…
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