Beware of false praises.

I want to discuss something that is gradually becoming part of our culture and, somehow, we are normalising it. Have you noticed that when a woman is single, she often receives far less attention from men than when she is married? Once a woman gets married, even when it is obvious that she is pregnant,Continue reading “Beware of false praises.”

Balancing the Old Culture and the New Culture

It is important to highlight that the values and roles traditionally performed by men in the old culture, such as protection, provision, and decision-making are still very relevant. What has changed, however, is that men are no longer the sole providers, protectors, or decision-makers in many homes today. Many men are struggling to accept thisContinue reading “Balancing the Old Culture and the New Culture”

You Are a Man Regardless of Your Financial Status

There is an obvious struggle today when it comes to the position of men in families and relationships. There has been a rise in domestic violence as some men attempt to exert authority in unhealthy ways within their homes and relationships. Today, we are going to examine what has led to increasing frustration among menContinue reading “You Are a Man Regardless of Your Financial Status”

The Immortality We Choose: Justice, Legacy, and the Cost of Silence

Life is often understood and viewed from perspectives that favor the observer. When you ask the grass in the field, the goat is the monster and the lion is the protector. However, I am very sure a goat will not see a lion as a protector, but as a predator. It was Wole Soyinka whoContinue reading “The Immortality We Choose: Justice, Legacy, and the Cost of Silence”

Hope Has Come Home.

Aku ruo uno amara onye kpatara ya Bethrand had just returned from the United States of America after spending nearly five decades abroad. He came home with a single mission, to liberate his people and uplift his community. At the time he decided to return, a great deal was happening in his village. A powerfulContinue reading “Hope Has Come Home.”

A Reflection on Grace, Fear, and Divine Mercy ❤️

One man once said that if you know little about science, it takes you away from God—but when you advance and truly understand science, it brings you closer to Him. ❤️That thought has stayed with me over the years, especially when people begin to question whether God exists or not. For me, I often thinkContinue reading “A Reflection on Grace, Fear, and Divine Mercy ❤️”

Renaming and the Quiet Forgetting

I have come to believe, more deeply than ever, that we must learn to appreciate what we already have as a people. Like a garden abandoned for distant fields, we have slowly turned away from the flowers that once bloomed in our own soil. And in doing so, we began to forget their fragrance. ManyContinue reading “Renaming and the Quiet Forgetting”

The Ant Mentality:

Ants never give up. Block their path and they go around it. Cover their road and they dig beneath it. Ants never complain—they simply find another way forward 🌼 The truth is, you cannot fully know what is possible for you if you are unable to see beyond your immediate environment. You become stuck whenContinue reading “The Ant Mentality:”

🌸💖 Awakening to Purpose and Perspective 💖

There is nothing, in itself, that is inherently bad. The goodness or badness of any thing or idea depends on the intention of its originator. 🌸💖 Take, for instance, a knife. By nature, it is simply a tool; whether it becomes a weapon depends on the circumstances and the intention of the person handling it.Continue reading “🌸💖 Awakening to Purpose and Perspective 💖”

🌸 The Strength of Humility and Intentional Living 🌸

What does it truly mean to be humble, or to possess virtues like kindness and gentleness? 🌼 Sometimes, when people hear that someone is humble, they mistakenly assume weakness or foolishness. This often becomes clear when such a person refuses to do something, and others respond with words like, “I thought they said you areContinue reading “🌸 The Strength of Humility and Intentional Living 🌸”