The Value of What We Already Have.

The little bird that chooses to perch on a rope should be ready to dance, because when a deity becomes irresponsible, it will be reminded of the tree from which it was carved. It is only an Nza bird that challenges its chi simply because it has had enough to eat, forgetting that what anContinue reading “The Value of What We Already Have.”

Our Disunity Is Their Weapon and Strength

Three brothers fell in love with one beautiful girl. None of them was willing to step aside for the others; each wanted to marry her. The girl, on the other hand, was just as confused as the brothers. She could not choose one over the others because each of them played a unique role inContinue reading “Our Disunity Is Their Weapon and Strength”

Be Authentic and Be Open to Learning

There is a story about a king who had three faithful successors. Tradition required that a king name his heir at a certain age to maintain order and prevent future family feuds. This wise king, unsure of whom to choose, decided to test their character, wisdom, and loyalty. In those days, elders often spoke inContinue reading “Be Authentic and Be Open to Learning”

Majoring in Minor Things

I had a conversation today with a colleague whose daughter is only 23 years old. She explained how her daughter had already saved nearly 10% of the deposit needed for a mortgage. Having just graduated from university and secured a well-paying job, this means she was able to save a significant amount while still studying.Continue reading “Majoring in Minor Things”

Beware of false praises.

I want to discuss something that is gradually becoming part of our culture and, somehow, we are normalising it. Have you noticed that when a woman is single, she often receives far less attention from men than when she is married? Once a woman gets married, even when it is obvious that she is pregnant,Continue reading “Beware of false praises.”

Balancing the Old Culture and the New Culture

It is important to highlight that the values and roles traditionally performed by men in the old culture, such as protection, provision, and decision-making are still very relevant. What has changed, however, is that men are no longer the sole providers, protectors, or decision-makers in many homes today. Many men are struggling to accept thisContinue reading “Balancing the Old Culture and the New Culture”

You Are a Man Regardless of Your Financial Status

There is an obvious struggle today when it comes to the position of men in families and relationships. There has been a rise in domestic violence as some men attempt to exert authority in unhealthy ways within their homes and relationships. Today, we are going to examine what has led to increasing frustration among menContinue reading “You Are a Man Regardless of Your Financial Status”

The Immortality We Choose: Justice, Legacy, and the Cost of Silence

Life is often understood and viewed from perspectives that favor the observer. When you ask the grass in the field, the goat is the monster and the lion is the protector. However, I am very sure a goat will not see a lion as a protector, but as a predator. It was Wole Soyinka whoContinue reading “The Immortality We Choose: Justice, Legacy, and the Cost of Silence”

Hope Has Come Home.

Aku ruo uno amara onye kpatara ya Bethrand had just returned from the United States of America after spending nearly five decades abroad. He came home with a single mission, to liberate his people and uplift his community. At the time he decided to return, a great deal was happening in his village. A powerfulContinue reading “Hope Has Come Home.”

A Reflection on Grace, Fear, and Divine Mercy ❤️

One man once said that if you know little about science, it takes you away from God—but when you advance and truly understand science, it brings you closer to Him. ❤️That thought has stayed with me over the years, especially when people begin to question whether God exists or not. For me, I often thinkContinue reading “A Reflection on Grace, Fear, and Divine Mercy ❤️”