There is little value in repeatedly being kind to an entitled person—someone who only takes from others and never feels the need to give back. It is important to watch out for such people. They may not have much themselves, yet they can make you feel guilty for not having enough to give them. SomeContinue reading “Be Kind, But Guide Your Kindness With Wisdom”
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WHEN YOU CHOOSE YOUR PARTNER, CHOOSE YOUR FAMILY
It was in the early hours of Saturday morning, at approximately 6 a.m., that neighbours gathered around Eric’s corner of the apartment. The children were crying in the background, while Mama Chikamso could be heard hurling insults and calling Eric names. Sometimes, it is difficult to understand where the malice or anger people have towardsContinue reading “WHEN YOU CHOOSE YOUR PARTNER, CHOOSE YOUR FAMILY”
LIVING WITH PURPOSE: WHEN MATERIAL GAIN MUST NEVER COME BEFORE HUMAN LIFE.
In order to organise your life effectively and live it to the fullest, you must be guided by your purpose. This means that you must be able to say no, even to a good idea or to someone you love, when what they are asking of you does not align with your purpose. I haveContinue reading “LIVING WITH PURPOSE: WHEN MATERIAL GAIN MUST NEVER COME BEFORE HUMAN LIFE.”
BREAKING THE BARRIERS YOU CAN NO LONGER SEE
A man saw a wounded eagle and brought it home. He nursed and nurtured it. However, during the process of treatment, he provided a limited space within which the eagle could fly around. It was not as high as the mountain where the eagle used to live, but a temporary environment it was subjected toContinue reading “BREAKING THE BARRIERS YOU CAN NO LONGER SEE”
WHAT HAPPENED TO OUR FAMILY SYSTEM?
There was once a community of people who loved and cherished one another. My people, there was a time when we all lived together—no big fences, no fear of one another. It was a period when hearing the voice of your neighbour ignited happiness; a time when men gathered together in their ebete, obi, orContinue reading “WHAT HAPPENED TO OUR FAMILY SYSTEM?”
Appreciate them now they still live.
Many people wait until someone is gone before they shower them with love and appreciation. It is even more concerning today, as we seem to have embraced a culture of celebration instead of mourning when we lose our loved ones. I don’t know whose idea it was that the only time to paint or tileContinue reading “Appreciate them now they still live.”
How Good Is Your Sacrifice?
There is no doubt that it is easier to think positively, remain optimistic, and be hopeful about life and the future. However, it is also true that we can become pessimistic and lost in thought when everything is not going according to plan. Nevertheless, the advice has always been to pick yourself up and keepContinue reading “How Good Is Your Sacrifice?”
Ubiquitous Assimilation
Learning the Art of Questioning Information Our people have a saying: “He who always asks questions does not lose his way.” Over the years, experience has shown that those who ask questions—questions that others may sometimes laugh at in class—often develop a deeper understanding than those who simply accept information without critical examination. I rememberContinue reading “Ubiquitous Assimilation”
The Culture of Convenience
Igbo people have a saying that when a sacrilege is allowed to endure for too long, children eventually mistake it for culture. Have you not noticed how the culture of convenience is gradually eating us all away? The idea of replacing hard work with smart work is increasingly being confused with a total loss ofContinue reading “The Culture of Convenience”
What Kind of Person Are You?
The death of Caesar could not have been as painful if he had been murdered only by his enemies. He was truly broken when he saw that Brutus was among those stabbing him. At that point, the pain was no longer physical—it had become psychological and emotional. The recent killing of a UniJos student overContinue reading “What Kind of Person Are You?”
