There has always been a desire to offer advice to others based on personal relationship experiences. Recently, however, there has been a noticeable rise in relationship breakdowns, role confusion, and leadership struggles among couples. This raises an important question: Who are you modelling your relationship after, and what was your ideal vision of marriage beforeContinue reading “Detachment Guilt: A Factor Contributing to Relationship Breakdown 🌸💖”
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Yes, I do — the biggest decision a person can make 💖🌸
There is a tradition we have gradually watered down in the name of being “civilised.” It is called Iju Ase — (to make enquiry). 🌸 It is part of our culture and heritage to make proper enquiries about who and where you intend to marry into. This enquiry covers medical history, personality traits, family values,Continue reading “Yes, I do — the biggest decision a person can make 💖🌸”
A Cry for Awareness, Unity, and Survival ❤️
Until we rise, fear will continue to rule our lives, tears will become our water, and wailing our daily bread ❤️Can’t you see? It has been the same set of people since the nineties—leaders with no real ideology, no clear vision, and hands driven by greed ❤️Kleptocrats with deceitful tongues and rehearsed smiles, selling usContinue reading “A Cry for Awareness, Unity, and Survival ❤️”
🌸 The Power of a First Impression ❤️
I have been reflecting on something simple, yet deeply important—the power of a first impression. It’s a small gesture, often overlooked, but one that carries more meaning than we realise. Many people do not pause to consider how their behaviour or attitude can be perceived, not just as individuals, but as reflections of their communitiesContinue reading “🌸 The Power of a First Impression ❤️”
✨ INFORMATION IS POWER ✨❤️
❤️ Information is power. If you don’t have information, you cannot seize power. In today’s world, information has become the new currency. People succeed and get things done faster when they have the right information from the right circles. ❤️ In the olden days, learning was mainly oral. No doubt, a lot of information wasContinue reading “✨ INFORMATION IS POWER ✨❤️”
💞 A Call to Conscious Living: “Who Will Bell the Cat?” 💞
💖 “Who will bell the cat?” is a powerful metaphor that thoughtfully captures a reality many of us recognise: while problems are widely acknowledged and solutions often identified, there remains a visible reluctance—a lack of courage—to take responsibility and act decisively. This reflection invites us to honestly evaluate not just the issue, but our roleContinue reading “💞 A Call to Conscious Living: “Who Will Bell the Cat?” 💞”
🌺 A Reflection on Ignorance, Freedom, and Our Shared Humanity 🌺
🌸 Ignorance is one of the worst things that can happen to a person. During the era of the slave trade, people’s hands were chained, but from colonization until today, it is the minds of people that have been chained. We now see individuals with sound bodies, yet their minds remain captive—bound to the sameContinue reading “🌺 A Reflection on Ignorance, Freedom, and Our Shared Humanity 🌺”
🌸 Breaking the Cycle: Understanding Systems, Building Wealth, and Enduring Growth ❤️
Our people have a saying: a tree that grows along the road to the farm is at risk of receiving many knife strikes daily. Likewise, a tree that bears the finest fruits attracts the most stones. 🌸This reminds us that anyone who chooses to bring light into their family must learn to endure the heatContinue reading “🌸 Breaking the Cycle: Understanding Systems, Building Wealth, and Enduring Growth ❤️”
🌸❤️ Reflections on Life, Death, and the Legacy We Leave Behind ❤️🌸
Last night, I found myself in deep reflection about friends I once knew who are no longer here. I remembered celebrities, pastors, presidents, and great men and women who once graced the face of the earth but now live only in memories. 🌸 Some carved their names through remarkable works, while others are remembered forContinue reading “🌸❤️ Reflections on Life, Death, and the Legacy We Leave Behind ❤️🌸”
Becoming intentional: A Reflection on Growth, responsibility and values.
There is no doubt that we must first see value in ourselves before we can truly add value to our lives. ❤️ Reflectively, I’ve come to realise that we often receive from life what we are willing to tolerate. When we lack a clear plan and purpose, we can easily become absorbed into someone else’sContinue reading “Becoming intentional: A Reflection on Growth, responsibility and values.”
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