🌸 Ndi Igbo si na ọ bụ otu anya ka eji alu nwanyị, but I want to paraphrase it: ọ bụ otu anya ka eji alu di na nwunye. ❤️(Patience and tolerance are the bedrock for sustaining a marital relationship.) We also have this saying that a palm-wine tapper does not say everything he seesContinue reading ““Eneche Aghara: An Igbo Approach to Healthy Relationships”
Category Archives: Mental health and self improvement
🌹Understanding Feminism Beyond Bias
❤️ There are many people hiding behind their personal bias to mislead others. Lately, the discussions around feminism and the feminist movement have been rising, but unfortunately, many young girls who are championing this cause have not taken time to truly understand what it means—especially in the context of the African female child. ❤️ AsContinue reading “🌹Understanding Feminism Beyond Bias”
🔥 Lust, Betrayal, and Death — A True Story with a Hard Lesson for Our Time.
❤️ Okuko si ya nwetakwa mkpuru akwu ya na-acho n’isi akwu, o sozikwa ogbe akwu ya rukpoo ya anya.(The fowl said that provided she is able to get the palm nut from the head, she doesn’t mind losing her eyes in the process.) ❤️ Our people also have a saying that when a sacrilege isContinue reading “🔥 Lust, Betrayal, and Death — A True Story with a Hard Lesson for Our Time.”
💭 A Lesson on Love, Loyalty, and Brotherhood 🤝
A story has it that during a war in Japan 🇯🇵, a soldier saw a young boy carrying his dead brother on his back. The soldier said, “Put him down, he’s dead.”But the boy replied, “He’s not dead, he’s my brother.” ❤️ That story reminded me of something that happened in 2022 when one ofContinue reading “💭 A Lesson on Love, Loyalty, and Brotherhood 🤝”
“True Love Checks Genotype First”
💞 It was their first child, but they could not understand why he was always being admitted to the hospital since birth. The doctor had told them that the baby was a Sickler. He went on to explain to the couple the complications as well as the pathophysiology of the condition. 💔 It was atContinue reading ““True Love Checks Genotype First””
Beware of a Snake with long memory:
Beware of a snake with a long memory When a bad person wants to deal with you, the first step is always the same: they appear peaceful, charming even… then slowly, they push you away from the very people who could save you when the storm comes. I remember a story my father told meContinue reading “Beware of a Snake with long memory:”
✨ Ndidi Amaka ❤️
Ndidiamaka is an Igbo name that literally means “patience is good.” But beyond the name, it’s a daily reminder of the power and virtue of being patient ❤️. My people say:👉 “O buru na onwu egbughi ji eji choo aja, Emesia o ga epu ome”(If the sacrificial yam is allowed to live, it will definitelyContinue reading “✨ Ndidi Amaka ❤️”
🌸❤️ The True Meaning of Success ❤️🌸
According to Earl Nightingale, “Success is the progressive realization of a worthy idea.” In simple terms: if you know where you are, where you’re going, and you keep moving in that direction—you are already successful ❤️. 🌸 Success is personal. What it means to you may not be what it means to me. I believeContinue reading “🌸❤️ The True Meaning of Success ❤️🌸”
✨ Choice ✨
We often hear people say, “It’s my choice how I want to live my life.” But have we ever paused to reflect on what truly gives rise to choice? 🤔 Behind every choice, there are two vital steps: Judgement 🧠 and Decision ✅.Too often, choices are made based on what others say—without our own deepContinue reading “✨ Choice ✨”
Who Is to Blame for Nigeria’s Current Situation?
There was a time in Nigeria when people lived peacefully in their homes, tilled their farmlands, and sent their children to school on scholarships. Businesses flourished, and though tribal, ethnic, and religious differences—exploited by politicians hungry for power—still lingered, there remained respect for life, culture, and moral values. Today, the picture is different. Public lynchingsContinue reading “Who Is to Blame for Nigeria’s Current Situation?”
Pen it down. 