The typical African child is born with an innate drive to survive, provide, and thrive β even in the face of overwhelming odds. π§πΎ From a young age, many of us arenβt even given the opportunity to simply be children. Parents begin early, teaching us about the necessity of survival. π¬π¨βπ©βπ§
Fathers tell stories β not just of survival at all costs, but of survival as a necessary path to dignity and strength. πͺπΎβ¨
Itβs important to remember: our ancestors thrived. They were men and women of integrity and willpower. Back then, every man could provide for his family. πΌπ‘ Children learned strength by helping their parents in the farms or workplaces β be it as hunters, blacksmiths, or traders. πΎπ¨
π The impact of colonization reshaped us. It introduced a survival mindset that often came at the cost of our identity. The consumption mentality, and the loss of self, are wounds we inherited from that experience. But even in that pain, colonization brought some new knowledge β a different kind of education. πβοΈ
β€οΈβπ₯ Now, the responsibility is ours β to align ourselves with our core values and rich cultures. We cannot continue pointing fingers or expecting those who once held us down to now lift us up. ππ§
Letβs reflect on our languages, our religions, our traditions β they are not inferior. π£οΈπΊ NgΕ©gΔ© wa Thiongβo said: βWhen you learn another language, you become empowered, but when you abandon your own, you become enslaved.β π§ π
My African brothers and sisters π β letβs build our continent, not out of rivalry with others, but out of love for our people. Our children deserve better. π§πΎπ§πΎ Letβs not forget Animal Farm by George Orwell β the colonial masters are long gone. But if we still see ourselves as outsiders, we become our own oppressors. πͺπͺ
We are insiders. Itβs time to embrace our identity, our culture, and most importantly, support one another. ππ±
Why canβt we have thriving industries again? Great schools? Hospitals β even traditional ones that heal through herbs? ππ₯πΏ
Too many of our children are falling into criminality, gangsterism, and cultism. These were not our ways. We are not naturally violent. We believed in βOnye aghana nwanne yaβ (Do not leave your brother behind), and βOnulu ube nwanne ya agbana osoβ (Do not run away when your brother cries out). ππ£
π« The change starts with us. Letβs begin by choosing leaders based on merit, not on tribe or religion. We need leaders, not dealers. π³οΈπ₯
π Let the change start with YOU.
π I remain your friend and brother,
Onuora Obodoechi
