Pause and think about the realities of life.
After all these struggles then what? ,many a times I kept on asking myself ,why are we really in this world?.
We grew up to find ourselves in a family; Science, religion and people around made us believe that we are related and that we should do things together.
The real truth is that we are all alone despite how we try to see it.
Take for instance ,everything that happens in this life is individualised, happiness, sadness, sickness, frustration, success even death, everyone has his own challenges to face. our paths may cross but our lane differs.
What makes you happy saddens the other person. Everyone wants the best for himself, (me ,myself and I) before any other person.
The bitter truth is , nothing in life is truly yours not even the life you have, if that is the case, why torment others with the position you find yourself .
We all are living a borrowed life. The only thing we should be concerned about is improving ourselves. You are all you’ve got, being too serious in life deprives you of the opportunity of being yourself.
Learn to appreciate, love, value and respect yourself; only when you see yourself as a worthwhile person , that people will do the same.
Work hard to improve yourself ,be the person you will be proud of tomorrow ( nothing in life last, we don’t live but exist, to live in the heart of many is to live forever). It is pertinent to know that in life character is more important and more rewarding than reputation.
Character shows how well you have improved while reputation is how people think you have improved.. in other words you use reputation to measure the degree of improvement you attain everyday of your life.
It doesn’t mean you should live based on people’s opinion. Those who live every day based on people’s opinion tends to loose themselves completely.
Every morning, we wake up, ready for our daily activities, go out for work, meet people, come back and rest and start all over again ; someday you will sleep and you won’t wake up ,what you see where ever you might be, nobody knows except you.
So, my dear, guard your heart with all diligence because from it comes the issues of life.
Live everyday of your life bearing in mind that you are alone ; if you fail, you fail for yourself and others, when you succeed you succeed for yourself and others.
Every person in this world was created for a purpose, and someone somewhere needs your gift to survive and achieve his own ambition. It is true that you are alone ,but you have some responsibility to fulfil during your life time.
My point is, before you can actually achieve your life’s purpose, you must first develop yourself , prepare yourself and become what you preach, because we see things the way we are and not really the way things are.
Everyone lives his life based on his opinion or perception of life.
Pen it down. 